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The appropriate time to bring up your ex(es)

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Photo from Unsplash Welcome to Limitless!  Hmmmm. THE PAST!   Do you know that not everyone has had bad relationship experiences in the past? Quarrels, misunderstanding or red issues didn’t bring their relationships to an end.  Is this general knowledge?  Some have had good relationships that ended due to the fact that they could not be with the person because of a circumstance beyond them.  For this reason, it sometimes gets difficult to let go, and I truly understand. You had this ‘almost’ perfect relationship, she was everything you ever wanted in a woman. Then, all of a sudden, an issue came up, and you had to separate. If you’ve been through this, you probably understand more right? You haven’t gotten over her completely, but you say to yourself, “well, life goes on, let me give relationship another try”. Then, you start talking to another girl. You guys click and you like her vibe. So, you guys decide to meet for the first time.  While on the date, she makes a mistake and without

How to read effectively

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Photo from Unsplash  Reading effectively is reading to accomplish a purpose and to get a desired result. So, the way I would read a novel is different from the way I would read a school book to understand and pass my exam, and that’s different from reading for research too. Do you get me? So, here, I’m talking about academia. How can you read to produce result?  1. Know your ambience and utilize it!  This is the very first step you must understand to be able to read effectively.  Some people read with music. I don’t know how you guys do it, but kudos! I know I can never pay attention if I try it. I will just start singing and dancing😂.  But that’s me right? Some people have actually figured it out and they’ve seen that it helps stimulate their thought process and ease their flow.  The best place for me to read is the library. You might want to ask me why. I just like the complete silence which helps me “hear” what I’m reading and understand better. And yes, I know some people will def